A home away from home
September 27, 2022
He adjusts his glasses as they slip down his face. He looks around the campus, confused and nervous, but a certain sense of excitement rises up in him. The mind that was constantly burdened by worries about academics now had an escape.
Junior Mingke Jiang moved to the U.S. nine months ago, attending school in La Habra, before coming to the Walnut area six months ago.Β With La Habra having a generally non-Asian school body, the predominantly Asian population of Walnut brought Jiang some comfort. In addition, the casual Western style of education such as lighter work loads and lenient teachers also lessened the burden of being in a new environment.
βIt was good, everybody is really friendly and [they] help me a lot. Thereβs a lot of Chinese students so itβs easy to get along with them and [understand] the rules. [Compared to] Chinese teachers, [the teachers here] are very easygoing and donβt push you or [make it] very stressful. They talk to you like friends [talk] to each other,β Jiang said.
In contrast to Walnut, a sea of unfamiliar faces and fast-paced speech prevented Jiang from assimilating into the student body at La Habra.Β
βThere weren’t that many Chinese people at La Habra. Generally, it was easier here for me and my dad, because my dad doesnβt know English. There really were not a lot of Asian people [in La Habra] so it was hard for me,β Jiang said. βUnlike at Walnut, there were no Chinese people to help guide me if I had struggles.β
However, Jiangβs experience with non-Chinese speakers did not come to him as a complete negative.
βA lot of students were curious. There were not a lot of Chinese people who also werenβt good at English,β Jiang said. βThey asked me a lot of questions about what China was like and I taught them a lot of Chinese. And also when the people around you donβt understand Chinese itβs easy to learn English that way because you have to speak English.β
In addition, when Jiang came to the U.S. he was surprised by the independence that American students have.
βIn China, you canβt bring your phone to school. Itβs funny to see everyoneΒ have their phones out when Iβm used to stricter rules,β Jiang said. βI also find it really interesting that students can drive themselves to school. In China, you see, even some college students don’t have a driverβs license because they donβt need it because you can walk everywhere.β
Although Jiang has his own struggles with the U.S.,Β there were also a multitude of struggles inΒ his hometown of Changchun.Β In China, entrance exams for high school become of intense importance.
βIn China, students feel really stressed. We have to start at 6:30 a.m. to 6:30 p.m. Thereβs a lot of homework and you need to at least finish it by 11:30 p.m. We have a lot of tests and the parents push us because of the environment,β Jiang said.Β βIf you donβt take a good high school entrance exam, you canβt go to a good college and basically your life is over. So thereβs a lot of academic pressure.β
Outside of school, Jiangβs parents also played a part to put stress on his academic life in China.
βIn elementary school, it was easier to have a better relationship with my parents when we werenβt worrying over school, but when middle school started there were some arguments and disagreements,β Jiang said. βSociety puts pressure on the teachers, teachers put pressure on the parents and parents put pressure on the students. Thereβs a lot of problems that arise.β
When Jiang came to the U.S., he left his mother and came only with his father. In addition to becoming more independent with this change of life, Jiangβs parentsβ attitudes also shifted.
βIn comparison to the other parents in China, my parents are less strict. But in comparison to the people here theyβre a lot stricter,β Jiang said. βMy parents are a lot nicer to me in America, mainly because youβre more independent. In American schools, you have more control over what you do and what you get on tests and assessments.β
In the future, Jiang hopes to try a variety of new activities that were not available in China, such as joining the basketball team, guitar club and going to various dances to meet new people.
βI want to improve my English so I want to reach out to more people, especially those who donβt speak Chinese,β Jiang said. Ξ©